Tuesday, January 3, 2023

Reading Round-up 2022

 This year I read 63 books - the same amount as last year. My goal had been to read 65. But, if Anna Karinina counted as three books, I would have met that goal.  Is this an excuse? 

 My Favorites for 2022:

Matrix, Lauren Groff

Sea of Tranquility, Emily St. John Mandel

Fresh Water for Flowers, Valerie Perrin

In the Country of Women, Susan Straight

Honorable Mention: Ordinary Grace, William Kruger Kent, Hotel Nantucket, Elin Hilderbrand

What makes a favorite?  I want to pick it up, I don't want to put it down, and I REMEMBER IT.  With the exception of Lauren Groff (and Elin, of course), all the authors were new to me. 

 My takeaways from this reading year:

1) I read a considerable amount of memoirs. Is that because the new memoir section is downstairs in the library, and not as perused as the new fiction section?  Do other people like memoirs as much as me?  

2) I did not enjoy my reading content as much as last year. Still trying to discover why this happened. Was it because I didn't do enough background research? trusted the wrong critics?   

3) I could have read more. Doom scrolling is still my number one time-killer. There are not many book ideas found on twitter.  Yet, a "not great" book prevents me from returning to reading.  How to end the time-wasting cycle??? 

Classics read this year:  Anna Karinina, and The Supper of the Lamb

Non-Fiction (not memoir): The Supper of the Lamb by Robert Capon, All the Frequent Troubles of Our Days, by Rebecca Donner, Untangled, by Lisa D'Amour, and We Don't Know Ourselves, by Fintan O'Toole. 

Reading goals for 2023:

1) Read three of the books I already own.

2) This year's classic selection: Crime and Punishment 

3) Try reading 63 books (again), but with a better selection process.  

4) Try to read some better non-fiction, non-memoir books.  


   

Wednesday, January 5, 2022

Reflecting on Cooking - 2022

 While many people still feel like we are in the pit of despair, my year went from despair to hope.  This is because my children are back in school.  I still don't quite have the words to describe how having my children home for a year affected me, and I believe that it will take many years for words to come through. Nevertheless, my cooking life has expanded.  

This year - and mostly the second half of 2021 (again, "school") I accomplished:

* Cooked from and reviewed the following cookbooks: 

Simply Julia, Julia Turshen  

Eat better, Feel better, Giada De Laurentiis 

The New York Times Cooking - No-Recipe Recipes, Sam Sifton

Come on Over: 111 Recipes for the Family that Cooks, Laughs, and Eats Together, Jeff Mauro 

* Continued to cook from the following cookbooks that I own. The ones I reach for the most were:  

Keepers and The Dinner Plan by Kathy Brennon and Caroline Campion 

SkinnyTaste, One and Done by Gina Homolka 

Dinner: A Love Story and Dinner: The Playbook, by Jenny Rosenstratch.  Still have not completed these books, and will work on it this year!  

* Purchased the following cookbooks:  I try to only purchase books I REALLY want, and I usually will take them out of the library before I buy.  

    1. The Weekday Vegetarian, Jenny Rosenstrach - Cannot wait to dig in. Have already cooked through her Dinner: A Love Story and about half of Celebrations and Dinner: The Playbook.  

    2. Ready, Set, Cook, Dawn Perry - Maybe not worth the purchase. TBD in depth after a few more recipes. I was lured in by the fact that Perry was a recipe developer for Real Simple.  GREAT for a beginner cook.  I have only cooked her slow roasted chicken and coffee cake.  The coffee cake will be made again and again.  

    3. 365 Days of Soup - encouraged to by this one by Paula Forbes in her Stained Page News.  Which soup matches your birthday? Hope to make more soups as the years go by!  

    4. The New Basics (used) - Always wanted to own this classic and found it last week at a furniture consignment store.

* Subscribed to the following cooking e-"newsletters":

Dinner a Love Story, Jenny Rosenstrach, Cookbook Author

Stained Page News, Paula Forbes, Professional Cookbook Editor

The Department of Salad (unpaid still), Emily Nunn, Food Journalist and Author 

The Wine Curmudgeon - great, inexpensive wine recommendations. Love Jeff!    

          Southern Living Magazine - Not electronic, but still love their recipes! 

          The New York Times Cooking website 

* Continued to try different recipe of the following meals in order to find my family's "favorite" recipe.  

Chicken Pot PieSkinnyTaste's is still the front runner (though this link is not the exact one in her book)

Sloppy Joe'sSam Sifton's is still the front runner. But this pork sloppy joe from Real Simple was great too:  Pork Sloppy Joes. 

Breaded Chicken Cutlets:  Practice makes perfect!  But I found Giada's Chicken Breast with Gluten-Free breadcrumbs and Rice Flour to really shine!  Also, the Ritz Cracker Chicken from the NYTimes was stunning!  

Turkey Burgers - always ready to a healthy alternative to our favorite Reid's.  My favorite is the New York Times Turkey Burger.  

Pork Tenderloin - Siri Daly's Pork Tenderloin with Apples and Cider was made more than twice this year to much acclaim.  

Pizza Dough - This is not really working for me. I still have not found a clear winner.  

Turkey ChiliSmitten Kitchen's one the taste test. Kids devoured it.  Dinner: A Love Story's still a top choice though.   

   * Other observations from 2021:

1.  Leftovers appear more than in previous years. Continuing goals of less waste and better ingredients have made leftovers easier to swallow. 

2. Ground pork appeared on our table more. Loved the pork meatballs, and pork with tofu in Keepers.

3. Kids ate tofu - they especially liked Julia Turshen's Sesame Rice with Tofu and Quickles and Peanut Sauce and the pork with tofu (see above).  

4. Consistency is hard.  I wanted to make Chicken and Rice every other week (so as to find the BEST Chicken and Rice recipe), but life gets in the way, and I have too many self-imposed requirements and recipe goals.    

*How I did on my 2121 cooking resolutions?

1) Continue the search for good dairy free recipes.:  Actually, I returned to eating a bit too much dairy, and will make this another resolution for 2022.

2) Continue to try different recipes for meatloaf/meatballs and chicken pot pie.  CHECK!

3)  My husband wants me to make gazpacho.  CHECK!

4) Make this NY Times pizza dough.  First, I have to buy the flour.    CHECK!

 * Cooking Resolutions for 2022:

1) Continue to research dairy-free recipes and food choices.  Perhaps try nutritional yeast.

2) Incorporate more greens in dinner. Aim for 3 nights a week.

3) Try and limit food waste.  

4) Finish cooking through Keepers/Dinner Plan/Dinner: A Love Story/Dinner: The Playbook (only recipes that appeal, of course).  

Cookbook review: Come on Over: 111 Recipes for the Family that Cooks, Laughs, and Eats Together, Jeff Mauro

 Come on Over: 111 Recipes for the Family that Cooks, Laughs, and Eats Together, Jeff Mauro 

I had never heard of Jeff Mauro, aka, "The Sandwich King" of Chicago. I don't watch television.  I picked up his cookbook in the library, and now I might even want to watch his show on the Food Network.  He is witty and loves his family. And he has great recipes that he has clearly made for his family over and over.  

Mauro has made popular and tested food choices. I cooked Mauro's sloppy joes (The Sloppy Lo, named after his son), meatloaf (United States of Meat Loaf, because meatloaf is wholly American), and turkey burger (The Juiciest Turkey Burgers Ever).  His recipes are created for his large family, so my family of three little girls and two "normal" eating parents always had leftovers, even though all portions were devoured.  His "Sausage, Egg and Cheese Breakfast Sandos" changed our family's schedule because these were the best breakfast my husband had ever frozen and warmed up.  These are permanently on our family's menu now - the biggest compliment I can pay any cookbook author.  

Mauro is also hilarious. His instructions make you want to read every word of the recipe. Example, "Close and cut to admire the colorful and inspiring cross section. Take a bite and quickly forget about cows in general." Also, "Serve with 14 napkins, preferably need a bathtub or garden hose."  I read almost every word of this book as it sat on my worktable for nearly two months, picking it up just to get a quick laugh.  

I want to hang out with Jeff and his family and share a meal, and the book really helps you picture what it would be like. While it might never happen, you can use his great recipes to have your own friends over. They always work!  



Cook Book Review: Eat Better, Feel Better by Giada De Laurentiis

 Eat Better, Feel Better  Giada De Laurentiis 

Maybe I liked this because I have been trying to eat better (just "trying", tbc) by staying gluten and dairy-free, like Giada started to do as a reset from her poorer diet of yore (i.e., the healthyish yet mouthwatering meat/ cheese/pasta dishes we expected from her).  And while her weight was "not the problem", as she tells her readers repeatedly, she "just felt bad," and eating made her feel better -  much much better.   Now, I relate, because I did eat gluten and dairy-free for about nine solid months. But, chose to eat that way explicitly to lose weight, and I did, BUT, I felt GREAT.  Eating well really does make you feel better.  And while Giada is gaggingly beautiful no matter what she puts in her mouth, I totally know she is right.  I just hope she cheats a bit more then she lets on.   

So, the recipes I tasted are great.  They are flavorful, healthy, and tested so they work.  She made a great effort to create different sides made from the same old ingredients, for example: Herbes de Provence Roasted Potatoes, and Roasted Cauliflower with Grapes and Pistachios.  I appreciated her addition of protein in White Bean and Broccoli Rabe Sauté, and the beans and greens combination she adds to her Steak Salad and Broiled Salmon.  The Milanese Chicken using rice flour and gluten-free panko bread crumbs was the best I ever had, and I will continue to use that recipe exclusively when I "Milanese" chicken.  

On the baking front, I made her gluten-free Spiced Apple Muffins, which the kids liked and ate.  Her Chocolate and Orange Brown Rice Treats were good, but nobody craved them, and they ended up in the trash after being in the back of the fridge for a week.  

While I look forward to cooking a few more of Giada's healthy recipes, I will admit that many of the once I didn't try were because they were plain recipes for "Rice" and "Brown Rice", and "Roasted Vegetables."  While it is always useful to see what temperatures and methods a trained chef uses, I would have been more interested to hear about more flavorful recipes.  I hope she writes some more!  



Cookbook Review - The New York Times Cooking - No-Recipe Recipes, Sam Sifton

 The New York Times Cooking - No-Recipe Recipes, Sam Sifton

Sam Sifton writes extremely good recipes.  His See You on Sunday recipes always come out like a dream. I make his potato salad five times a summer.  So, why did he write No-Recipe Recipes ?  Because they truly are still recipes, no matter how Mr. Sifton seems to deny it.  And, they also have amazing finished product.  Each recipe has an ingredient list, a description of how to make the meal, small commentary you have come to expect from Sifton's newsletter, and a beautiful picture of the food.  

The "no-recipes" have worked.  The Sloppy Joes were perfection.  The Salmon with Barbecue Sauce and Hot Peppers not only brightened up our weekly salmon intake, but also used up the half cup of BBQ sauce I had in the fridge for a year.  The Fried Halloumi Salad was genius, and Roasted Shrimp Tacos will be made over and over. Sifton's tips and modifications for each recipe make this "no-recipe" book an actual resource, rather than a quick cooking jaunt.  

About half of the recipes from this book are available on the NYTimes.com/cooking website/app.  (If you have not downloaded the app, it is truly the only reason I sustain my NY Times subscription) If I see this book at a used book store, I will snap it up for my collection. 









Wednesday, December 8, 2021

Top Books and Such for 2021

 My Top Five Books of the Year - not rereads:

Between Two Kingdoms - Suleika Jaouad

Monogamy - Sue Miller

The Paper Palace - Miranda Cowley Heller

Good Company - Cynthia D'Aprix Sweeny

This Must be the Place - Maggie O'Ferrell 

Honorable Mention:  Seating Arrangements, Maggie Shipstead and Dear Edward, Ann Neopolitina 


Top Podcasts

The Mockingcast

The Deep Dive with Jessica St. Claire and June Diane Raphael

Typology with Ian Cron

The Bible in a Year Podcast with Father Mike Schmitz  

The Rise and Fall of Mars Hill, from Christianity Today

Honorable Mention:  Armchair Expert, Femsplainers, Everything Happens, the Popcast.  


Top Television (i.e. only television we watch, so no comparisons)

Shetland on Britbox

Ted Lasso on Apple TV

Death in Paradise on Britbox

Narcos:Mexico on Netflix

Book Reviews - 2021

 Quick Review of Books I read this year:  2021 - only books I finished.  

East of Eden:  What a way to start the year!!  A reread, but I had forgotten everything from 20+ years ago. The problem with starting with the best, is that you only go down in quality.  But, it also saves you from plowing though some doozies.  



Olive Again, Elizabeth Stroud:  Another master class in beautiful writing.  I liked this better than Oliver Kitterage, the prequal, perhaps because I was mentally prepared for the book to be sad. But, I found hope instead!   



Actress, Anne Enright:  First book I read by this prolific Irish author.  It is written from the POV of a famous actress' daughter. Loved the descriptions of Dublin in the twentieth century.  I will read more from this author.  


Such a Fun Age,
Kiley Reid:  Didn't like the characters.  Already forgot most of the book.  



To Be a Man, Nicole Kraus:  Love the writing of this author, and remember that this collection of short stories is well written.  I don't remember any of them, except that many of them take place in Israel. 

 


Trouble in Paradise, Elin Hilderbrand:  The last of Hilderbrand's Winter in Paradise trilogy.  I read it in one day. It was the best of the bunch, and made me want to go to St. John the VI more than ever.  I am a huge fan of Hilderbrand. 



Our Lady of Perpetual Hunger, Lisa Donavon:  A truly hard worker writes a great memoir. She writes about her journey to becoming a chef and writer with vulnerability and care.  I hope the pandemic gave Donavon some time to rest.    

 


Beach Read, by Emily Henry:  I liked this more than The People You Meet on Vacation, which is her second book, published this year (I could not even skim it...).  This was fun mostly because of its setting on the Upper Peninsula, which I have never been to, but might want to visit someday.  I could not get over the outrageous premise.



Searching for Sylvie Lee, Jean Kwok: The author's prose and dialogue were well crafted.  The Dutch setting was the highlight, and the mystery was just the amount of mysterious I like.   



The Island of Sea Women, Lisa See:  A deep and gory dive into Korean history based around the story of the sea women on a Korean island.  Beautifully executed, thought-provoking, and long.  



A Children's Bible, Lydia Millet: While I was probably ready for something a bit lighter after Island of Sea Women, this popped up on my library holds. Thankfully, it was short.  I am sure there is some analytical essay published about this allegorical end-of-the-world tale, but I didn't search for it.  This was interesting, but truly for literary nerds. 

   


Bravey, Alex I Pappas:  Another memoir.  This Olympic runner and screenwriter did have a powerful story to tell of her childhood, and the challenges she overcame to become a competitive runner.  She is fifteen years younger than me (maybe more...) so it was interesting hearing about her high school/college years and how they differed from mine, and made me wonder how those years will be for my daughters.   



Big Summer, Jennifer Weiner:  I have never steered towards Weiner, only catching her books when they appear in the "New Fiction" section of our library.  I really enjoyed this escape, that I read in a dark time. Always love books on Cape Cod!  



Seating Arrangements, Maggie Shipstead:  Downloaded during sleeplessness.  Read it in two days and loved it. WASPy lit at its finest!  Four months later, I was sorting through the basement bookshelf and found the hardcover I already had....  



The Dutch House, Anne Patchett:  Patchett is flawless as usual, and I loved it.  Loved the male narrator, of which I never read enough.



The Huntress, Kate Quinn:  My first Quinn book. It focuses on Nazi war crimes and the Soviet Women's Air Corp.  Enjoyed the European and Boston setting.  Stereotypical characters abound, but I was still interested in where this story was going.  



Eliza Starts a Rumor, Jane Rosen:  Discovered that Elin Hilderbrand recommended books on Instagram, and saw she recommended this newer "chick lit" book.  An extremely fun read with social commentary on Westchester and Manhattan mothers. 



Kitchens of the Great Midwest, J. Ryan Stradel:  Anne Bogel of Modern Mrs. Darcy did this book for her online book club, and while I didn't participate, I read the book.  It was such a different book, and ends up somewhere  you will never guess.  I think about it way more than I thought I would after I finished it.



Dear Edward, Ann Neopolitina:  Declined this book from the new fiction Library section multiple times, before it finally called to me, and I loved it.  The premise seems so stupid (ie: the life of an only surviving boy on an airplane), but Neopolitina makes the story realistic and authentic. 



The Push, Ashley Audrain:  Recommended by someone who I thought liked happy books. This is not good.  Children are hurt, commentary is made. I would skip.  



An Onion in my Pocket, Deborah Madison:  Madison's new memoir about how she began her life in food is interesting, especially to a cookbook lover like me.  It would be super interesting to hear about her Buddhist monastery days, though, and she holds back from what could have been a great book. 



Between Two Kingdoms, Suleika Jaoud:  Now Jaoud did not hold back, and she did write a great book. Probably the best memoir I have read in a few years.  Definitely the best "surviving sickness" memoir.  If you think she won't go there, she does.



Rules of Civility, Amore Towle:  From the same author as A Gentlemen from Moscow, which I loved.  I loved this book too, the 1920s NYC setting, the stories, the surprises, but I didn't love it as much as A Gentlemen. 



Wintering, Katherine May:  A description of an autistic British woman's coping mechanisms through a difficult period and her ponderings on these mechanisms. As a Christian, I want to send her the gospel, but instead I settled for hearing about her cold water plunges and trips to see the Northern Lights. She did inspire me to attempt more cold water swims on Martha's Vineyard this summer.



Vanishing Half, Britt Bennett:  A book club pick and best seller. Really enjoyed this fast read about sisters. Bennett writes a good story, but felt a tinge unrealistic to me.    



The Great Circle, Maggie Shipstead:  Shipstead's newest novel.  It was good, but a bit long, even for the century long saga that it is. 

 


Monogomy, Sue Miller: Relationships, middle age, cities, bookstores. It seems to be a book formula that works for me. Loved this realistic novel with good dialogue.

 


  

Finding Freedom, Erin French:  Another food memoir.  French overcame single motherhood, a terrible marriage, and rehab to open a destination restaurant in Maine. This was good. I still won't pay for Magnolia Network though.  



Musical Chairs, Amy Poepple: Another fun chick lit read recommended by Elin Hilderbrand.  Rom com and classical music are well combined! (Poepple is also a Wellesley grad.)



The Great Believers, Rebecca Makkai: Beautifully written, historical documentation of the AIDS crisis in Chicago in the 1980s .  Depressing. 



Small Admissions, Amy Poepple:  After Musical Chairs, I read Poepple's previous work. Not as good, but relatable as a former twenty something in NYC myself. 



The Emerald Mile, Kevin Fedarko:  Took me months to finish because I never truly focused.  Great book about rafting in the Grand Canyon, the Canyon's history as a national park, and dam engineering.  Fascinating, and now trying to book Grand Canyon rafting trip before it dries up.  



Commonwealth, Ann Patchett: Always love Ann, and now sad I am running out of her other books to read.  Loved the plot twists in this.  

 


 

Golden Girl, Elin Hilderbrand: My favorite summer beach read author did not disappoint! I will be so mad when she stops writing.



The Meaning of Mariah Carey, Mariah Carey:  Written for her fans, and I am not a strong fan, but definitely interested in her life, as her music was in the background of my entire young adulthood.  I learned she wrote her own music, and I admired her more. 

 


Lorna Mott Comes Home, Diane Johnson: I didn't know that Johnson had a new book out - her first in many years.  The author of Le Divorce writes about a dysfunctional family circa 2008. Her usual "la-di-da" fare with social commentary and humor.  Cover could have been better designed:



The Wreckage of my Presence, Casey Wilson: I did not know who this was when I read this. Maybe that was better?  Essays about her life that are humorous and sentimental. It did lead me to her friend June Diane Raphael's podcast The Deep Dive, which is a favorite.  



The Bookshop on the Shore, Jenny Colgan:   First time reading on of the UK's most prolific chick lit authors.  Same predicable plot, but fun to read about it in the Scottish Highlands.

  


The Paper Palace, Miranda Cowley Heller:  A tragic family history written in sensual detail that takes place on Cape Cod.  Stunning.  Rated X.



That Summer, Jennifer Wiener:  Looking for a lighter read, like Big Summer, but got Me Too on Cape Cod.  Blah.



Olympus, Texas, Stacey Swann:  Again, I went looking for a fun read and was truly having fun reading this until a twist turns this into another tragic family history. Small town Texas lights up for those of us who are ignorant.  


 

Good Company, Cynthia D'Aprix Sweeney:  Similar to Monogamy - about a long-time marriage and its sudden turn.  Loved it and realizing that I have a "type" of book.  



The Midnight Library, Matt Haig:  I think the author wrote this too 1) show off his philosophical knowledge, and 2) to dream up as many scenarios of a life as a person can have.  I appreciated his effort and fun scenarios.  



The Empathy Diaries, Sherry Turkle:  I am a longtime fan of Turkle, and was interested in reading the autobiography of her first thirty years.  



Hourglass: Time, Memory, Marriage, Dani Shapiro: Well written reveries on the author's marriage and marriage in general. Don't remember more than that. 

 


Inheritance, Dani Shapiro: Her follow up book about the amazing discovery she made while writing the previous book. Her ruminations on family are addictive.  



White Fur, Jardine Libaire:  Another Elin Hilderbrand rec. 1980's WASP life clashes with Puerto Rican poverty that starts at Yale and ends unexpectedly.  Mesmerizing and cringy. Rated XX.



The Plot, Jean Hanff Konelitz: A hot book based around the publishing industry (hmmmmm?).  The plot did move along. Can you figure it out?  



The Last Thing He Told Me, Laura Dave:  I don't even remember what this is about.


Malibu Rising, Taylor Jenkins Reid:  A quick pool read. And really only that.



The Invisible Husband of Frick Island, Colleen Oakley:  A pleasant surprise. A different plot for a rom/com that is somewhat realistic and cute to boot. 

 


Evvie Drake Starts Over, Linda Holmes:  The main character had no kids and lived in small town Maine. Didn't click with me, but it was fine.



A Place Like Home, Rosamunde Pilcher:  A Pilcher book I had not read, which was a miracle.  Anything she writes it heartwarming.  



Crossing to Safety, Wallace Stegner:  A reread that made all the books after it dreck.  The best of the best.  


The Other Black Girl, Dakota Dalila Harris:  Any book following Crossing to Safety is going to suffer.  This was good, but I am still not really sure what happened in the end.  



Haven Point, Virginia Hume:  A family story that is based in coastal Maine.  Of the five Maine based books I read this year, this one described the best climate. I will enjoy anything that takes place in a New England summer colony.  



Crying in H Mart, Michelle Zauner:  A women's memoir about the death of her Mother and their relationship. Bryn Mawr graduate.



The Mothers, Britt Bennett: By The Vanishing Half author. I thought this was a bit better because it was more realistic.  Wish there had been more of "the mothers".  



Animal, Lisa Taddeo:  A wounded woman on her worst behavior.  Readable. 



This Must Be the Place, Maggie O'Ferrell:  Magnificent. A story of love and betrayal that starts in Ireland and spreads everywhere.  


Food Saved Me, Danielle Walker:  Walker, who suffers from a chronic illness, tells her story of how her dietary choices saved her health, and her journey to becoming a cookbook author and inspiration for other sufferers of chronic illness.  


Small Things Like These, by Claire Keegan:  A beautiful, small novella set in 1980's Ireland. Gave my reading life a needed jolt.

A Woman is No Man, Etaf Rum:  Takes place in my old work neighborhood of Bay Ridge, Brooklyn. Can picture the entire book!  Moving story as well.


Normal People, Sally Rooney:  Don't know what took me so long! I am almost ashamed I waited so long, but now I am sad I am done.  Can't wait to read her other books. And after so many books recently read that take place in Ireland, I am ready to book a trip!